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Aww maybe he didn't actually cum but so what! Calling the poor guy out like that just makes me cringe. The point is to have fun with each other, orgasms are just a bonus!

the1og wrote:Aww maybe he didn't actually cum but so what! Calling the poor guy out like that just makes me cringe. The point is to have fun with each other, orgasms are just a bonus!

They are a necessity not a bonus

physicist wrote:

the1og wrote:Aww maybe he didn't actually cum but so what! Calling the poor guy out like that just makes me cringe. The point is to have fun with each other, orgasms are just a bonus!

They are a necessity not a bonus

Aw you really feel this way? I am always happy to cum of course but I am happier to spend time being intimate and feeling pleasure, even if no climax happens.

the1og wrote:

physicist wrote:

the1og wrote:Aww maybe he didn't actually cum but so what! Calling the poor guy out like that just makes me cringe. The point is to have fun with each other, orgasms are just a bonus!

They are a necessity not a bonus

Aw you really feel this way? I am always happy to cum of course but I am happier to spend time being intimate and feeling pleasure, even if no climax happens.

I said that in jest but I do think that orgasms are a by product of what you just. Yeah orgasming quickly isn't ideal especially for a man, unless you are preparing for round 2. Women can orgasm quickly and go again soon sadly man can't

If i meant necessity i meant it for the female. I can see why the girl was frustrated. Nonetheless it should be intimate and slow at first as you said

I think my real point was that "he" obviously did not develop any understanding, why "she" was unsatisfied...

And this I found quite a pity...

I would have said a necessity in my younger years, now I definitely say a bonus, although a very welcome and enjoyed one

Not all women can go again soon - if there is anything I learned about sex throughout the years, then it is that you have to learn to understand a new partner from scratch sexually (and otherwise too of course). That can be frustrating (if you thought you knew how "it" works) but it can be very exciting, too. You just need to be open and enjoy learning.