Tantalising bondage techniques

[Jeremy]

I thought it would be interesting to start a forum and see what bondage techniques people think work best on girls and for people to share their views and experiences. Speaking for myself i have only engaged in what I consider to be pretty light stuff eg spanking, blindfolds, tying up etc. I have not experimented with swings, Shibari ropes or clamps (applied judiciously of course) or even the Karma Sutra in a meaningful way.

That said, one can always benefit from expanding one’s repertoire and in that sense I consider myself an avid study.

To clarify, this is not about technique or prowess, but about the optimal way to tease a girl remorselessly and give her something a little 'novel' in seeking/sharing her gratification, so the focus should be on mentality (including benign manipulation) and amplifying her desire in ways that few men can achieve.

Hearing any girls' views would be really stimulating too.

J

[audiophile444]

Hi, Jeremy. Look up Tantric sex techniques. You can even apply them online through cyber sex. I did that once with an American Indian woman at her suggestion. Also, try blindfolding your date, use light restraint, and apply feather techniques. Guaranteed to drive some women nuts. In both cases, abstinence is an enhancing factor. This is a great new topic and I look forward to our members' comments.

[reggind]

Wow, two little stories here...

Swings are not bondage. They are swings. They are a lot of fun, but make sure that whatever you have them screwed into is screwed in solidly. I had one split the 2x4 was screwed into. It was not well centered and the metal top part and the spring came smashing down next to me. I took a bit of a hit with the top part. She was "in position" on the swing so most of her body mass was not in line with the path the parts took. If I ever put it back up again I am going to mount a 2x6 across the 2x4's in the attic and run a long machine bolt up through the ceiling and the 2x6 and put a couple fender washers under the nut on the top.

And on a humorous note.. Many many years ago back when my mother and grandmother where still alive we would all go to the grandmothers house for the Christmas holiday. My mother would drive in from Ohio, and where I lived at the time was pretty much in her route so she would stop and rest for the night at my place and take me and my girlfriend to the grandmothers house.. We had a king sized waterbed that was quite comfortable and we had a big fold out bed in the living room. My mother was telling us how much her back hurt. We both worked second shift and kind of wanted the living room for ourselves anyway, as that was where the TV and the atari (them were the days, right?) were, so we gave her our room. We did not think anything of it. Anyway, the next AM she was kind of giving us the hairy eyeball, but we had no idea why. She did clean up our room a bit and make our bed, which we never did. I figured she was just ired at the place not being neat. We had a lot of issues about that when I was a kid. Anyway, we had a nice dinner at the grandmothers place and got dropped back at our place afterwards.. It must have been a week later when one of us dropped something under the bed when we remembered the big screw eyes we had put into the waterbed frame at strategic locations and the leather and Velcro straps that were attached to them... Heh. There is no way she did not see that when she made the bed.. Kind of mortifying at the time but funny now in retrospect.

[Jeremy]

2 very interesting stories reggind! i can imagine the first one being a little painful.....ouch! it sounds more like effort than fun - was it good for her whilst it lasted?!

hi Audiophile, thank you, yes, it's one thing going online and seeing 100+ ideas.....but i was just curious to see what other people's general experience ie what works / doesn't, if there is any sort of consensus, etc......the blindfolding thing i have done with great effect, particularly combined with enforced obedience

I suppose i am trying to find something a little more "novel"......

[audiophile444]

Jeremy, Novelty is the spice of life as someone once said. I have no idea who any women are members but it would behoove the men on this site, as Jeremy has requested, to encourage all female members or viewers to provide their ideas about what a man - or woman for our bisexual or lesbian members- can do to enhance their sexual experiences. JulietH may have an idea or two, for example. Here's hoping we get female inputs to this great topic.

[reggind]

Oh hell yes, swings are a blast. We used it for years before it broke. In retrospect I could see it was not well centered on the 2x4, more in the side of it, and over time and stresses the side cracked off and down it came. With the spring they are bouncy, and they have a bearing so they can spin freely. This opens up all kinds of interesting possibilities. Outside of sex, if you get yourself situated in one just right they are also unexpectedly comfortable. Especially on a hot day as you can get the cool air from the AC pretty much all around your person.

[Jeremy]

well you have succeeded in making me curious reggind thank you. so it shall be added to the list. i see there are many types, and i'm sure one coudl you use it in many interersting combinations. yes, this could open up a new avenue for exploration, especially on a breezy summer's day