You can call me Ms.Bond 😝

[Alisha Pink]

Listen, You are the one pushing this godforsaken humiliating conversation, and you know it has everything to do with you and your mindset...

Why do I need to "be right with you"? Are you an Admin? Have I wronged you? Are you the utmost authority on scrutinizing profiles?

This is not my ego. This is an effort to make other fellow women more comfortable in becoming active here, by standing up to baseless attacks from you. I am attempting to break the patriarchy at every post, but you don't allow it, you keep attacking me for LITERALLY nothing I've done.

You keep saying men use fake profiles pretending to be a woman, troll, spam or be a sock puppet... Have I done even tiny fraction of any of those things? Then why do you feel the need to attack me?

You ARE being supremely toxic by spreading distrust and alienating an entire gender on this forum! Imagine if another girl comes across this thread and reading your baseless attacks on someones individuality, she would run and not look back. You are making this community worse by every post you use to doubt and attack me, again WHILE I HAVE DONE LITERALLY NOTHING!!

I couldn't care less about quelling your suspicions, even God herself wouldn't be able to do that. You'll find something wrong with everything I do. Even a simple act of justification turns into "overly defensive replies"

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Oh now Mr.tweaktweak also has a problem with my entire being and my personality, they way I post is "over the top 'acting'", giving people a chance to know me is a "strange backstory and affection"

What he really wants is for a girl to be timid and not say anything more or nothing less than absolutely required.

Like a robot, Hi. Everyone. This is Model-A56. Reporting for Duty. I love sex. I love sounds. I love this site. Goodbye.
Are you happy now, tweak?

You are punishing me because of your past flawed experiences? You said "a post like this comes along and has been just fake", you do realize comparing my individuality to some completely random post you might have read is borderline insanity?

Please stop bothering me. You can become a tyrant again when I ACTUALLY DO SOMETHING BAD!! Until then, keep quiet and let live!!

[yeppie]

Welcome Alisha Pink!

I noticed that your start wasn´t the easiest here but in my view this community is a friendly one where discussions are welcome and usually considerate.

Talking of considerate discussions I´d like to begin with thanking tweaktweak for his scepticism that is appreciated and often has been justified. There is always a risk of blaming another member wrongly but your instinct and your wording are trusted.

Alisha, when reading your first posting, my immediate reaction was like "yet another guy pretending ...". New messages from you came in almost every minute and my spam radar was activated. But with every new message, you seemed to prove me wrong, no spam, no pretending, you seemed like a real person being happy to explore this community ... although there still was something unusual, new to me. Where this feeling derived from isn´t too hard to explain, for me it is the differences between our lifes and experiences. A 19 year old woman lives, thinks, feels, expresses herself very different from a guy who is 3 times her age. Although what I read from you sounds much more adult and elaborate than I´d have expected from somebody of your age. I take my hat off to you for that!

Back to tweaktweak ...

Post away, by all means. I'm no threat. I have no say in it. I'd love nothing than for more people, men, women, straight, bi, gay, lesbian, non-binary etc to post. This just triggers a lot of alarms.

Sentences like this one are the essence of your postings in this thread for me and you have my support for those. I perceive a sceptic but definitely friendly message in most that you said here.

But if you imagine a real person, young, female, with probably another kind of unpleasant experiences on the web than yours or mine, you got someone who has to justify herself for being herself. It isn´t hard to understand how this might feel.

I thank Alisha for pointing this out to us, for investing the time and the energy to reply and to "fight" for her position and not to just stay away.
And I´d like to (almost) finish by citing rhabarb who put into words before what I am trying to express kind of clumsy here:

Please forgive my piping up here: I can see your point, tweaktweak, but to say that "prove me wrong but this smells fishy" amounts to an unfair reversal of burden of proof. Assuming Alisha is legit, any suspicions about her just mean that she is being punished for what others might have done in the past, that is, things that are beyond her control.
Everybody should have the right to be considered a real and honest member unless there's concrete evidence suggesting the contrary. Plenty of people would have been scared away if they had been greeted with suspicion, and if simply stating you're a woman is enough to justify wariness, then that means we're still far from (as you put it) "breaking the patriarchy".

My plea is that we do as both of you (Alisha Pink and tweaktweak) kind of suggested: Assume that somebody ain´t faking until they do. And keep on welcoming all kind of members which is the essence of this great community.

I will keep this thread closed for now but am open to discussion with those who are concerned. Please PM me in case but we might return to an open discussion later.

[yeppie]

What I forgot to mention: I have additional evidence that Alisha Pink is who she claims to be.