Weird swinging experience

[thaithai]

We got in touch with this couple through mutual acquaintances. They came with quite good references so my wife and I were pretty excited.
Altogether it was not a great experience, far from it in fact. The guy was a weirdo - just too bossy and wanted everything his own way. He insisted on both couples to have sex in the same room at the same time – I was not particularly comfortable with this arrangement (after all we had never met them before) and my wife also felt very, very awkward.

In this audio file you can mostly hear the action from this guy and my wife (in bed). At the same time (with me sitting on the armchair) he asked (or should I say ordered?) his wife to get on her knees, suck me and let me cum in her mouth. To make matters more awkward, he wanted to be watched by me and his wife all the time. This was rather off putting, -particularly for my wife. She is ok with the occasional swinging adventure but having many eyes on her whilst she’s getting pounded is probably a step too far.

I deleted all the dialogues where our male ‘friend’ gives instructions like a Z-list porn movie director as I didn’t like his arrogance and there was also some personal info. His wife was pretty good at giving head and did all the right things… but unfortunately I couldn’t cum.

He went down on my wife and then penetrated her doggie style (around the 5:20 mark). As he wanted to make sure that me and his wife could thoroughly ‘enjoy the show’, he asked my wife to turn and face us before entering her from behind. “Let’s show them our best cum faces baby” he said nonchalantly.

Just when I thought my wife couldn’t climax either (with all our eyes on her)… in the end she did. Around the 9:30 mark, you can hear him ploughing her vigorously from behind and his powerful thrust was good enough to push her over the edge in a matter of seconds.

[listen48]

Shame about the awkward situation. But at the end your wife got off on him and it sounded good

[thaithai]

Shame about the awkward situation. But at the end your wife got off on him and it sounded good

You're right - at least she got to orgasm (unlike me), lucky cow
That said, we agreed that we are not going to meet this couple again - he's just too weird...

[eyeofthestorm]

Shame about the awkward situation. But at the end your wife got off on him and it sounded good

You're right - at least she got to orgasm (unlike me), lucky cow
That said, we agreed that we are not going to meet this couple again - he's just too weird...

Good that you / she could finally enjoy this meeting somehow but I completely understand that you won´t see them again. I probably won´t try such a "blind date" for the same reasons. Both need to feel comfortable with the people you join and she should always be the one who decides what might happen ... at least for us that is important.
Thank you for sharing and talking so openly nevertheless!

[thaithai]

Shame about the awkward situation. But at the end your wife got off on him and it sounded good

You're right - at least she got to orgasm (unlike me), lucky cow
That said, we agreed that we are not going to meet this couple again - he's just too weird...

Good that you / she could finally enjoy this meeting somehow but I completely understand that you won´t see them again. I probably won´t try such a "blind date" for the same reasons. Both need to feel comfortable with the people you join and she should always be the one who decides what might happen ... at least for us that is important.
Thank you for sharing and talking so openly nevertheless!

Thank you for your comment!
We see swinging as a bit of an enjoyable diversion. It's about having fun for both of us, nothing more, nothing less.
Having an orgasm is very nice of course... but not the be all or end all, especially in this kind of situations.
I am glad that we shared the same feelings, ie. this couple is not a good match for us.

[mjj9994]

Thanks for the clip ThaiThai.

I have witnessed/participated in some awkward swinging experiences as well, kinda similar to your story. Some guys like to "direct", some are very particular in what they want their wife to do (no kissing, same room only, etc) and some are just really inexperienced and/or selfish and do not know how to interact with or do not care about others when playing. These types definitely make for a sour experience. If meeting someone from online I usually try to gauge them beforehand based on discussions and have been fortunate to be able to weed out many of the really weird ones but there are always a few 'bad apples' in the mix so to speak.

[thaithai]

Thanks for the clip ThaiThai.

I have witnessed/participated in some awkward swinging experiences as well, kinda similar to your story. Some guys like to "direct", some are very particular in what they want their wife to do (no kissing, same room only, etc) and some are just really inexperienced and/or selfish and do not know how to interact with or do not care about others when playing. These types definitely make for a sour experience. If meeting someone from online I usually try to gauge them beforehand based on discussions and have been fortunate to be able to weed out many of the really weird ones but there are always a few 'bad apples' in the mix so to speak.

Thank you for your valuable contribution
My 'problem' is I don't go online to look for like-minded couples so I don't get the chance to weed out the weirdos.
We only have one couple of friends that we trust and that's it. The problem is they live in a different city so can't meet them often.
They had an encounter with this new couple (who don't live far from us) and the feedback was pretty good, so we asked for their details etc...
Just goes to show that not everyone is the same, I guess

[DaneCopenhagen]

Weird story but great sounds non the less - Thanks for sharing!

[saydamoda]

If I were you, I would fuck his wife very hard and without listening to anyone. If you don't care about him, he shouldn't care about you.

[sonar]

That eye contact is a kind of cuckold thing.

[thaithai]

That eye contact is a kind of cuckold thing.

Thanks for your comment... but I am even more confused now.
Who's the cuckold here? Me? Him? Both of us?

[yeppie]

That eye contact is a kind of cuckold thing.

Thanks for your comment... but I am even more confused now.
Who's the cuckold here? Me? Him? Both of us?

Eye contact is kind of a love thing.

[sonar]

That eye contact is a kind of cuckold thing.

Thanks for your comment... but I am even more confused now.
Who's the cuckold here? Me? Him? Both of us?

As I red (maybe I am wrong undersrood) he would like to forced you to this situation (that you as a cuck).But you weren't.

[sonar]

That eye contact is a kind of cuckold thing.

Thanks for your comment... but I am even more confused now.
Who's the cuckold here? Me? Him? Both of us?

Eye contact is kind of a love thing.

In normally situation absolutely.
But this is also a double-edged sword.

[thaithai]

That eye contact is a kind of cuckold thing.

Thanks for your comment... but I am even more confused now.
Who's the cuckold here? Me? Him? Both of us?

As I red (maybe I am wrong undersrood) he would like to forced you to this situation (that you as a cuck).But you weren't.

Exactly - no-one was forced to be there, not at all!
The fact that we didn't thoroughly enjoy the evening is a totally different matter.